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5 Things To Figure Out Before You Can Find True Love – Orji (Outta Experience)
Often, people think that they have to learn how to master love when they’re already in a relationship. In reality, who you are before you ever fall in love says much more about how your relationship will work out. You might be surprised to learn that most of the work of creating true love in your life is actually done before you ever meet “the one.”
Here are five things you must master before you can invite real love into your life:
1. Don’t focus on finding a partner. Focus on building a great relationship with yourself.
If you want anything in life to work out, you must have a trusting and loving relationship with yourself first. This is the primary focus in life coaching work, because a positive self-image truly paves to road for any happiness, opportunity, and lasting joy in life
2. Replace anxiety with faith.
People who have found real love, didn’t get permanently caught up in anxiety, believing they will never find love. Rather, they remember to trust in divine timing. Negative, fearful thoughts only increase anxiety and an anxious mind never speaks nicely to the self.
3. Learn to receive the love that is offered to you.
It’s a bit counter-intuitive, but receiving is a much more vulnerable act of showing yourself to another person than giving. You are basically telling another person, “You make me happy,” which is both a very empowering statement to make and one that makes you feel vulnerable.
4. Let go of your checklist of must-haves for your ideal partner.
While it’s good to know what you like and don’t like, you also don’t want to narrow your worldview and create stubborn tunnel vision. Must-have lists are formulated from a head space, but the head isn’t what falls in love or has compassion during inevitable tough times.
5. Become an effective and honest communicator.
You cannot selectively be a good communicator with some people and a terrible communicator with others. You are either someone who has the integrity and the courage to be heard and speak their mind honestly, or you are hanging on to a tendency to suppress, avoid, or silence communication.
In the comments I’d love to hear from you: what can you do and improve upon now that will help make your future relationship bloom freely?
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