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Six 6, Things That Will Change When You Finally Find True Love – Orji
You don’t fall in love with violins playing in the background. Love is not going to Destiny supermarket or Chanel O to by shawarma, Love is not going to Old English to eat Bush meat. Love does not happen under the pouring rain. Love is not all pomp and show. When you find the right person, things fall into place and you feel calm and peaceful within. There are no budging questions or insecurities.
People do not fall in love by chance either – it’s a setup that you stage for yourself and you decide how your characters will play. You weave your own story and pour magic into it. People come from different backgrounds, race, ethnicity, colour, gender and the list is endless, however, love does not see the differences. It does not see your colour or your skin type; it just happens and you merely stand looking at yourself in the mirror differently.
A lot of things change when you are with the right person. Here are certain beautiful things that definitely happen if you have found the true love of your life.
1. You know for sure how your partner feels
You feel a new found calmness, thinking about your partner. There is no space or place for uncertainties and insecurities anymore and you just know that all is going well between the two of you. Gone are the days when you sat holding your phone in your hand worried to death and waiting with a baited breath for them to respond back to your texts or calls.
2. You feel very comfortable around them
Comfort level is such that not even farting or burping out loud can put your spirit down. It’s ‘au natural’, after all. When you have found the right person you just don’t feel like hiding yourself in the shell anymore and there is no controlling your emotions, either. You let it flow easy.
3. Silence is comfortable
Both of you do not feel the need to fill the space between the two of you with unnecessary chatter or small talk. You are comfortable with the silence and can sit for hours peacefully doing your own thing without uttering a single word. It not always about verbal communication.
4. Disagreements without disrespect
Yep, you heard me. All of us are different and not always will two people agree to something. Disagreements are good because it keeps you going in life. Imagine if you agreed on everything, life will be a tad bit too boring and a monochrome picture. Disagreeing is natural, but disrespect is not – it is a choice and we should always maintain that semblance in a relationship. Every individual is unique and they demand respect and your relationship is all about it. Love and respect.
5. Friends and all, bring it on!
Oh, yeah! Meeting with their friends and making them meet yours is just a common thing now. Their friends are now like a family to you and so are your friends to him. It’s a huge family coming together as one and everything is chilled out between the two of you. The stories your friends have to tell about each other are the best memories are building with each other.
6. Nothing is forced
Your relationship is not forced and everything between you two flows perfectly in sync. You accept each other as is and nobody is in a cut-throat competition to achieve something or change the other. Being with each other should easy and uncomplicated.
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